What is a better city than New York to be lonely in? (Begin Again)

What is a better city than New York to be lonely in? (Begin Again)

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Although it had been a year or so since I was last in New York, Begin Again brought back so manyย electrifying images in my head.ย There is a strange sense of familiarity when I was watching the movie.ย Brooklyn, Washington Square, Central Park, China Town, EMPIRE STATE BUILDING AND TIME SQUARE!

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I know I know, it makes me sound like a pathetic small town girl, overwhelmed by the flickering lights of Time Square, but the truth is, tall modern buildings and urban skylines are not foreign to me. Being born and raisedย in an international city (Hong Kong.), I’m not new to fast-pacedย urban lives. But to me, having been to New York twice for a substantial time, it has occupiedย a special place in my heart, asย theย one and only metropolitan.

 

There is something about it that you can’tย find elsewhere, Tokyo, Paris, Seoul, Manila, HONG KONG… no, New York is special. It is lined with gold and glittering light bulbs. It is rough and delicate. It is rugged andย posh. It is violent yetย elegant. It is imperfect but complete. It smells awful but the air is intoxicating. It is the homeย of hobos and jobless people; and the land of promises, of dreams coming true. As if New York itself is a rustedย paradox.

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I loved every bits of its uncivilized subway, even the human poop (don’t ask why I knew it wasn’t dog shit) in it. I loved walking on the streets of Manhattan all by myself, slightly frozen yet still striding forward. Andย that all I had wasย just me and my music and myย solitude.ย I miss thatย feeling of havingย a free heart and open mind; fearless and hopeful.

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To anyone who has ever been lonely in a city

a) some things are meant to be kept between yourself; things that only you would understand and appreciate. Things that you should never stop doing.

b) being with someone doesn’t mean you won’tย feel lonely anymore andย that’s perfectly fine.

c) everyone needs their own purpose in life.

d) in case of depression, just keep walking.

Because a city as big is capable of containing your insignificant sorrows. Let the darkness absorb all your troubles and surrender to the chaos of urban lives.

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And back to the movie, I enjoyed the soothing music, Kiera’s fashion style and the fact that the male and female leads had pure friendship. The movie was about second chances, something that I am learning in the hardest way possible. Of course it was about Adam Levine’s singing too ๐Ÿ˜‰

Simply put, watching this movie alone inย a row of seats in the cinema all to myself at 9:30 am before work, is one of the best decisions I have made lately.

p.s. I wonder if new yorkers ACTUALLY realize how lucky they are to be living in such a gorgeous city.

THE ultimate trip of U.S. Exchange – Clichรฉ New York Part 1

After this 10 days trip (that included an unfortunate tiny accident at the end as usual), it took me an ENTIRE week to catch my breath and catch up on schoolwork. Now that school is FINALLY coming to an end (2 more SNOWY DAYS ONLY), I better start getting back on my writing spree because there is so much to note down before they slip away from my memory…weeeee ๐Ÿ™‚

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First part is New York and I think we did a pretty good job covering everything we wanted to see together, Chicago The Musical, MOMA, Time Square, Staten Island (Statue of Liberty), SOHO (which essentially just means GROM!) and NY at night.

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Like any other trip, of course the spotlight is straight on food. And this is just what heaven would look like if translated into cake…ok may be that doesn’t make sense, but the cakes at Cheesecake Factory are just so delicious (although really really overpriced too :P) the melted marshmallow clings closely to the chocolate cheesecake and it was so velvety and smooth and sweet and dreamy ahhhhh…IMG_3905

Right, now I shall tick off our checklist one by one:

Chicago – absolutely checked. It was just so exciting and glamours, the band were so professional and the choreography was excellent. It was humorous and very entertaining. However there technically wasn’t a set and don’t expect much from the costumes. The special effects were sparse but spot on. What makes it even better was the rush tickets we bought at 30 bucks. We sat right in the front row center seats on the balcony. SO worth it.

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MOMA – yea just.. checked. Yes the atmosphere and the space is really something. But both of usย are not very artistic. And the art there, which I’m sure must be pretty darn good because of the famous names (Picasso, Matisse etc.), just made it even HARDER for us to appreciate compared to say Musee d’Orsay or The Louvre. At least those paintings look like SOMETHING (lotus, bridge, sky, woman etc.)

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But these? These were just SO abstract: RED painting = art, PINK Plank = art, White background scribbled with words = art, Phallic object chair = art…Anyway, it is probably us, and not you, so it’s okay…I guess we will just stick with food which we are so good at appreciating.

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Then of course there is me acting like I completely understood what the artist is trying to do there ๐Ÿ˜› and attempting to look artistic..elegant even (everything I’m not XD)DSCN4570

And this, my friend, is art.

Time Squareย – checked! Of course, how can a girls trip be one without shopping? The giant Toys R Us, Disney store, chocolate stores and F21 etc. are must go. It was so much fun because who doesn’t like some sizzling heat in the chilly winds of New York? ๐Ÿ˜‰

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And, no, we are not too old to be taking photos with giant MnM. (With glasses! ๐Ÿ˜€ although my favorite is probably the short Red one)

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Asking strangers to take our photo has proven to be one of the toughest challenge yet. After picking someone whom we think we can outrun (just in case they steal our cameras), we also need to make sure that they are adequate with technology…More often than not, the photo is not the angle we want it to be (I know…it’s a favor…I shouldn’t be too demanding but I just can’t help it :P). Eventually we are just happy that it’s not blurry, it’s a straight photo and at least it is ACTUALLY TAKEN. Sometimes we just stand there for 5 minutes and no photo was captured LOL. This below is actually an A+ capture (y)

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Washington Square Park / SOHO – ICE CREAM CRAVING checked. This is a pleasant surprise because the best gelato place we tried in Milan/ Venice actually has a branch right here in Greenwich Village. It was just as good :’) so happy that we thought we will never get to try it again yet ended up running into it so soon.ย DSCN4524

I guess this is life sometimes. When you think you lost something, look closer or hang on a little longer because the miracle might beย just around the corner. It has happened to me a few times now and yes, the losing part will be devastating, but don’t lose hope because all of that is necessary to get to the rediscovery part. Not one tiny detail, however seemingly insignificant, can be skipped in order to arrive at the exact right place.

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If you follow the Humans of New York page, you probably will remember this scene ๐Ÿ™‚ Another pleasant surprise of running into them in Washington Square Park!

Of course last but not least, this posture must look familiar โค yes how lucky and fated this is that this year we get to spend our respective birthdays TOGETHER :’) since she has given me the best meal experience ever (the gorgeous twinkling lights view and good food) I had a high benchmark to follow.IMG_3884

But Cramine’s has lived up to the standard. It has REALLY good food and generous portions for the price we paid. The cherry stones were very fresh, the riggatoni with sausage and broccoli in white sauce smelled so good and was so flavorful that we forgot to take a picture of it. Lastly, the Tiramisu was HUGE and I just loved the chocolate “skin” ๐Ÿ˜› We finished it before our musical as dinner as well ๐Ÿ˜‰ kind of.

To be continued…

Another Chapter in Life

Yes indeed this blog is a record of my journey in life, and not only about my traveling. So here it is, a quick update ๐Ÿ™‚ As a fresh senior (pun intended), my second exchange kick starts at Rutgers, New Jersey! Home will be Piscataway for the next 4 months. Talk about being global ah ha. Obviously things would be oh so different, but I have faith that it would all just be a different kind of good.

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Life is good. Life is awesome. Although this summer felt so short like it never happened, I have had a great internship experience and the best final week in Hong Kong. Sweats, laughters, hearts and stars. Up to this point everything felt like an accelerated dream.

May be I am just jet lag. Confused between reality and fantasy. R is for Rachel.

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At this moment, pretty much everything’s settled. All tests/ vaccines done, moved into apartment, orientation almost over and school starts next week!

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This will be home for the next 4 months, and they would be roommies ๐Ÿ™‚ It is time to live “independently” again. It might sound silly, but the most exciting part when I come to think of it is doing groceries (buying ICE CREAM) and doing whatever I please again. ๐Ÿ™‚ yay.

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Although it is only my 4th day here, I have already seen a broadway show – Mamma Mia! โค words cannot express how great it was.

We got discounted tickets from the school and it was worth every penny/dime/quarter (?) huh, still trying to figure out how US coins work.

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It was nothing like the movie! The set was genius, the two moving blocs could form different scenes and the “rocks” were so nicely designed that they actually change colors! I loved the set, the actors and the whole Mediterranean color tone. It was of a completely different vibe than Phantom of the Opera (yea obviously), Around the World in 80 days and The Sound of Music. I was taken by surprise when the disco concert popped up at the end. Everyone was singing and dancing along which was just plain awesome!

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My favorite part must be “I have a dream” when the humongous full moon descend at the background. It glowed so bright that it almost blind my mind. The silhouette of Sophie and Sky was somehow so touching to a point that I had to force myself not to blink or I would miss out their last second on stage. What a perfect ending to a perfect day! (Almost forgot to mention, I got a FREE calendar, main point isn’t that it’s free, but i NEEDED one.)

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I believe in angels
When I know the time is right for me
And my destination makes it worth the while
Pushing through the darkness still another mile

I’ll cross the stream – I have a dream

– ABBA